To have a good relationship we need to learn to speak the love languages that our partner can understand and feel. This can be particularly uncomfortable for people who are obsessive-compulsive, because they are most comfortable with one language. But learning a new language is always good, and the energy and deternmination that come with being obsessive-compulsive can help you to learn it.
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Since we’re beginning a new year, I thought it might be a good time to […]
I recently posted about the benefits of self-compassion in lowering the depression that perfectionism causes. […]
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