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The Healthy Compulsive Project: Help for OCPD, Workaholics, Obsessives, & Type A PersonalityThe Healthy Compulsive Project: Help for OCPD, Workaholics, Obsessives, & Type A Personality
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OCPD book
08 Feb
11

The Healthy Compulsive Book Has Arrived!

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Recognizing OCPD and The Driven Personality A woman who recently realized that she had OCPD […]

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OCPD anxiety
26 Jan
8

Keys to Facing OCPD Anxiety and Fear

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People who are compulsive, workaholic or Type a personality have a, well, special relationship with anxiety. It propels them to get lots done, but it also makes it hard for them to enjoy life. And those at the unhealthy end of the compulsive spectrum, those who have Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder (OCPD), have such pressing anxiety that they may never enjoy life.

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perfectionist persecutor
16 Nov
24

Why Perfectionists Become Persecutors in Difficult Relationships

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In my last two posts I’ve been exploring how Rescuer, Victim and Persecutor roles affect […]

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difficult relationships
27 Oct
8

How Rescuer, Victim and Persecutor Roles Lead to Difficult Relationships

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As I wrote in my previous post about Karpman’s Triangle, three archetypal roles typically lead […]

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critical partner
07 Oct
12

Critical Partner: Rescuer, Victim & Persecutor Roles

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Look closely at any conflict with a critical partner, and you’ll usually see certain roles […]

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skeptical about psychotherapy
14 Sep
4

Is Psychotherapy Effective? A Note for the Skeptical

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Yes, you should be skeptical about whether psychotherapy is effective. Therapy asks a big investment […]

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authenticity
15 Jun
3

Authenticity: Why Being Realistically Real Matters

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Living authentically feels good and is the best way to create the diversity we need to solve problems. But it’s not so easy to do, and, unrestrained authenticity is not such a wise approach all the time anyway. Unbridled authenticity in the wrong places can lead you to be rejected and hurt, and it can lead to hurting others needlessly if you say everything that comes to mind.

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best psychotherapy for OCPD
14 Apr
5

What is the Best Psychotherapy for OCPD (Compulsive Personality)?

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If you’re trying to research the best psychotherapy for OCPD and compulsive traits, you probably […]

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compulsive depression
18 Mar
12

Compulsive Personality & Depression Part 3: The Compulsive Hedonic Treadmill

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Forty-eight hours ago, after a weekend of frantic formatting, I sent my editor the first […]

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negativity bias
23 Feb
6

Compulsive Personality & Depression Part 2: Negativity Bias–Constantly Scanning for What’s Wrong

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  Leonard had an eye for what was wrong. His negativity bias was stronger than […]

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  • Letting Go of Resentment: Why You’re Obsessed with People Being Good July 8, 2026
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As much as 13% of the population has alexithymia, difficulty in knowing and saying what you feel. Perhaps better expressed as the unspeaking heart. And it's especially common in people with obsessive. e-compulsive personality traits. Learn more about causes, results and solutions at the Healthy Compulsive Project Podcast.
The most common dream I've seen in my 35 years of practice as a psychotherapist and Jungian psychoanalyst is the the exam anxiety dream--dreaming that you're back in school and unprepared for an exam. What's this about? #dreams #anxiety #Jung #ocpd #obsessive-compulsive Find out more at www.thehealthycompulsive.com
Anxiety is simply unnamed fear. Take it deeper, name the fear, and, while it may not disappear, it will not rule your life. Find out more by listening to The Healthy Compulsive Project Podcast episode 49. #anxiety #fear #OCPD #obsessive #compulsive
Letting go may be one the moist important skills we have to learn, but no one teaches us how. For more, check out Episode 41 of The Healthy Compulsive Project Podcast. #lettinggo
For more insights on how be a better partner, or how to deal with a difficult partner, especially those who are rigid, controlling and perfectionistic, visit thehealthycompulsive.com #perfectionist #difficultpartner #relationships #maritaldiscord #OCPD #OCD #obsessivecompulsive
To perfect originally meant to complete a meaningful task. Until the theologians got hold of it in the 14th century and added shame. Learn more at www.thehealthycompulsive.com. Search for "adaptive perfectionism." #perfection #perfectionism #OCPD #OCD #Jung #obsessivecompulsive #goals

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