Years ago, when I was first learning lovingkindness meditation, I had a problem with it. […]
Who’s Making Your To-Do List? Moving From Tyranny to Inner Harmony
Some of us live by our lists. We do whatever they tell us to do. Others dig their heels in and rebel against whatever chores have been assigned there. But who makes the list? Whoever does determines the power of lists to make our lives miserable or fulfilling.
In a previous post I sang the praises of healthy perfectionism and described how we […]
Meditation for Type A Personality: An Interview with Teacher George Chen
Meditation for Type A personality, and people who are driven or obsessive-compulsive, might seem like […]
There’s an increasing amount of research which suggests that spending at least two hours each week engaging with nature improves our well-being. And because of the epidemic of Nature Deficit Disorder (yes, it’s a real thing), an increasing number of healthcare professionals are even prescribing time in nature. This research implies that it’s beneficial for everyone, but there’s good reason to believe that it can be particularly beneficial for people who are driven, Type A, and obsessive-compulsive, because they’re faced with certain mental and physical challenges that being in nature can help with. Spending time in nature can help to balance a personality that is weighted far too heavily on the side of control, planning, perfecting, achieving and fixing.
How do I move past creative blocks? Many people get stuck and aren’t able to […]
Let’s take a break from formal clinical studies and approach the subject of compulsive perfectionism […]
If you’re a Type A, driven, perfectionist, high-achieving, or obsessive-compulsive parent, you’re probably just as […]
Anxiety dreams may seem simply like a nuisance at first glance. But slow down and pay attention and you might find they have something to tell you about how you are living and how you see your world. Issues of avoidance, authenticity, and being tested can all show up in anxiety dreams. Seen as a source of wisdom, these dreams can lead you in new directions should you choose to engage with them.
Living under the constant judgement of an overactive guilt complex stinks. It can keep us […]
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